
Most of us pass judgments on others that are not only ill conceived, but also ill supported, meaning that they have no real grounds to stand upon. When you judge someone else the only person you are ever truly judging is yourself, because whatever you see in them is a reflection of what is within you, and it may or may not truly exist within them at all. For instance, if you are annoyed with someone because they are always late, perhaps what you are really annoyed with is your own inability to be anything other than early out of fear of what others might think or say about you. Conversely, if you are pleased with someone else s punctuality, what you are truly pleased with is how it reminds you of this quality within yourself. However, if you see someone as dishonest or lazy, ask yourself whether you have any evidence to support this, or if you are just making assumptions. Clearly positive judgments are not as large of an issue, not unless it becomes such an egotistical perception of y
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